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    3 months ago

    Deleted comment:

    I called them out for not following their own community rules:

    Please be nice to other members. Anyone not being nice will be banned. Keep it fun, respectful and just be awesome to each other.

    and they deleted their account.

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      3 months ago

      What was wrong with them removing your comment? You were being annoying 🤷‍♂️

      Their response seemed perfectly measured to someone being needlessly pedantic.

      Edit: And also Shuts down? Did you miss the ‘down’? Was the title edited after the fact? What does the rest of that modlog say? The screenshot is cropped.

      My perspective is you were being annoying, got downvoted/called out, feigned shock, got your comments removed, and now you’re on a bitter smear campaign.

      This is the weakest accusation of mod abuse I’ve seen. Good grief.

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        Yes, their comment was extremely annoying, both in tone (whining) and content (TL;DR: “pls spoonfeed me basic reading comprehension”). If the mod simply removed the comment, or issued an official warning, it would be 100% warranted.

        However, what the non-mod user is saying ITT about moderator abuse is still spot on. The mod in question answered to the whining in tone, tried to cover their own arse with content removal, and then went to whine in Mastodon about the events, or the fact that there’s transparency functionality in Lemmy (the mod log) against the exact same behaviour that they showed there.

        So it’s a case where both sides were wrong but given their relative positions the mod being wrong is a bigger deal.

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          I agree with you, but what does a moderator do once they engage with the user other than remove the whole interaction? They deleted the whole thread, not just their opposition.

          Seems like the the whining on mastadon about transparency was more because this guy is following them around harrassing them via public modlog screenshots, when on any other forum it wouldn’t even matter… unless it actually mattered.

          In this situation, my view is OP made a mess, pissed jannie added to the mess, OP feigned shock, pissed jannie thought better and cleaned the mess up.

          Yet OP here is still trying to stir the pot like the mod was silencing their opinion or something. It was a worthless comment.

          edit: oh my god he’s been copypasting this for months LMAO I’m done. God.

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            I agree with you, but what does a moderator do once they engage with the user other than remove the whole interaction?

            You think before engaging. And if you fuck it up, you apologise to the community (not to that specific user) for what you’ve done wrong. But unless the content is sensitive (for example, the other user posted something illegal), you keep it alone, at most you lock it.

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              Lemmy is too small and this snafoo is so pointless that I think a community apology would be hilarious.

              I think the punishment should fit the crime. Having some weirdo follow your posts around calling you manipulative and toxic for months is just… its too much. It’s a linux gaming forum, some social ineptitude is to be expected. Users shouldn’t feel entitled to continuously attack a mod who “mod abused” them with the assault equivalent of a light shove.

              It’s just the most insulated privileged non-problem, my god.

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                Lemmy is too small and this snafoo is so pointless that I think a community apology would be hilarious.

                It doesn’t need to be something fancy. Just an “EDIT: I apologise to the community for sounding abrasive. I’m a mod here so my behaviour should be better than that, my bad.” I think that it’s important because users take moderators of their respective communities as role models on how they’re allowed/disallowed to behave, so if the mod doesn’t at least mention that they fucked it up, other users might see it and think “OK, that’s valid behaviour here, even the mod does it. Time to go rogue.”

                I think the punishment should fit the crime. Having some weirdo follow your posts around calling you manipulative and toxic for months is just… its too much.

                Yup, full agree with that. And based on interactions with the user in this thread, they’re being clearly disingenuous, mincing words to play the victim. The mod was in the wrong but that’s, as you said, too much.

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                  3 months ago

                  100% Yeah you’re right. I was imagining a public apology An edit is appropriate. Still, this dude puts socker players to shame with how he cries foul.