• webghost0101@sopuli.xyz
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    14 days ago

    Isn’t this very context dependent?

    For a small question it makes the most sense to just ask but often in work question can be much more complex. And the pre question or hello is pretty much: “Do you have a few minutes of time to read about and discuss this issue”

    I have a colleague who just drops a wall of text on me. With varying levels of work-related/importancy and i find it very annoying depending on what i am doing.

    Also if i contact someone who i know is very busy id like to know if they have time available to chat or call about x.

    I am neurodivergent though, i am used to bigger chats because i hate calling and phone calls without heads up really bother me. It seems so pretentious to just on a whim go “STOP WHAT YOUR DOING AND HEAR ME”

    • Evotech@lemmy.world
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      14 days ago

      It’s fine if your actually mention what you want to talk about

      But just “hi” is terrible