MrCrankyBastard@lemmy.worldtoUnpopular Opinion@lemmy.world•Lemmy is a worse platform for women than Reddit was
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9 months agoMy proverbial beef isn’t the pointing out of how manny men are predators and that the risksfor women are non-zero; my problem more specifically is that the meme stacks handily on top of the already vexing racial profiling I deal with as a black man who’s had false allegations leveled in the past and lost jobs because of the weaponization of this fear. I have already spent damn near a half century being presumed some kind of feral Mandingo rape beast purely for existing while black. The presumption of interest in all of these women like a scene out of Kentucky Fried Movie gets really old and they get super vindictive when rejected.
My feelings are far less of a concern than my personal safety. The distance between ‘she was asking for it, dressed like that’ and ‘those n-bombs are all rapists, if a woman claims assault for any reason it’s guaranteed he did it’ ain’t as far apart as you seem to think.
I dunno 'bout you, but I’m sure as fuck not looking to be the next Exonerated Five example. And more importantly, being as I’m inot a trigger-happy stand-your-ground state and in the same Metropolitan area where Amber Guyger feared for her life after going into the wrong fucking apartment, I sure as hell don’t trust things to be made right or go smoothly the second white woman tears are involved.