I guess it’s time for a preemptive strike Canada, don’t wait until it’s too late.

I wonder, if you’re not harboring any immigrants and ICE is breaking open your door because they suspect you do, is it morally OK to start shooting to defend your home? How would you even know it’s not a burglar?

No, I just moved here 4 years ago, first a business trip, then I met someone and asked to go on more business trips until I asked them to move me to the Korean office and I me and my now wife moved in together.

Do you mean living in Asia or born and raised? I moved to South Korea 4 years ago.

Nextcloud it just too heavy I totally agree, and everything feels slow and sluggish.

For just files I use Syncthing and couldn’t be happier, it just works in the background without a central server just syncs the files between phones, PCs and laptops by itself. I set it up like 5 years ago when I had enough of Nextcloud and to be honest most of the time I forget that I have it, but I use it every day to sync my password database for KeePassXC, my music, my private and work documents between all my devices.

Here in Korea there are so called Kids Cafes which are basically indoor playgrounds where you pay an entrance fee. There are often quite many children different ages and we take our kids there sometimes.

The more obvious one would be just the normal public playground, check when other kids usually are there and join them. If you do it regularly you will find that there are more or less the same children there at the same time.

But the biggest problem for the child in first day Kindergarten is that their parent suddenly disappears, over time they get used to it bit even after years in Kindergarden there are days where they don’t want to go :D

You’re misunderstanding what I wrote, because:

People leave the platform: “I don’t get why this upsets anyone, it’s his platform”.

Is exactly the opposite of what I was trying to say with:

he is not forcing you to use his platform

you can just leave, there are so many alternatives available, if you don’t then you are part of the problem, giving him power and putting more money into his pockets. In fact you should have seen the writing on the wall many years ago and latest when he bought it.

Being upset about this now after he did so many worse things is just silly.

We practically only use the calendar, it’s possible to use tasks also with it but there is no native tool for it on iOS which my wife uses so we don’t use it.

I selfhost https://radicale.org/v3.html and just added the calendar to iOS as a CalDav calendar, in GNOME Calendar and with help of DAVx5 on Android with the built in calendar. And then I added it to Home Assistant too, and made a dashboard which I automatically show at 7am on the TV.

So what, it’s his platform, he can do whatever he wants on it, he paid a lot of money for it.

I really don’t get why this would upset anyone, he is not forcing you to use his platform.

If you’re self hosting other things already then https://radicale.org/v3.html or https://nextcloud.com/ offer shared calendars.

It’s just a drop in the ocean, but I set up a family calendar and I put in everything I come across which needs to be dealt with into it and we both can see it in our phones and on the morning dashboard in the living room. I ask my wife to also populate it which she occasionally does. It helps to not need to keep it in your head all the time because you see it every morning on the dashboard for the next couple of days. Things like:

• Renew child A’s visa
• Make child K write an essay on a regular basis
• Vaccination for child A
• Prepare for child K’s school trip
• Change bed sheets
• Bring child K to birthday party
• Register for child K’s Summer Program
• Go to Photo studio with child A
• Call the bank about moving money abroad
• Ceramic class
• Visit grandparents

and so on. The thing is when I don’t know about it then I can’t even offer to take it over. This way it’s also a bit more visible for both of us what the other is doing so we can share easier.

Tired of winning yet?

I don’t. I even removed analytics from my website which doesn’t even have comments. It doesn’t give me satisfaction at all.

Upvotes, it seems so random what gets upvoted anyway so most of the time it’s not because of the quality of my post.

Comments, yes that one I like because I get to see other peoples view on the topic which I’m interested in.

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I think Thore words are not adequate to describe your or my situation.

My main language is English right now because that is what I mostly use. It’s my 4th language. I was 11 when I emigrated for the first time and between then and now I had two other main languages.

I’m not sure how easy it is to get to contribute to Lemmy, they are very big and have to move slow not to break things fo very many users.

I’m part of PieFed https://join.piefed.social/ which is still very small and fast to implement changes. The developers meet in a matrix chat and we know we have a lot to fix when it comes to UX and are eager to work with people knowledgable in this field.

If you’re interested and have some time over I would introduce you to the other guys.

Define ‘better’

So what, have you heard about transparency? /s

At the playground, I brought a little sieve and sifted the sand. I made two piles—one with fine sand and one with coarse sand. They didn’t turn out very big. Then my son suddenly got up and ran toward the swing, so I had to get up and stop him.

Now I’m drinking a latte.

I would go with CS. It’s very easy later to switch to management with a CS background, but it’s im possible to switch to CS with å management background.