• squaresinger@lemmy.world
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    23 hours ago

    I wish I would see any of my friends monthly. I haven’t seen my best friend in like 4 months or so.

    Weekly meetups with 3+ friends, that’s something you can do before you have a wife, kids and a job.

    10 years ago, I had a really large social circle, with a group of ~15 people who met 1-4x per week. That was all fine and easy when the only commitment was university and part-time jobbing. But with a full-time job and kids, all that just disappears.

    A week only has 168h. With work, sleep and family, there’s not a lot left.

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      23 hours ago

      Well i did not think about that. Im in my mid twenties and i only have a job to worry about, so what i said came from this my perspective.

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        22 hours ago

        Wait for it ;) It’s gonna get you like anyone else.

        Except if you stay childless and then you are the rando with too much time while everyone else you know just disappears into sleep-deprivation-induced zombie mode.